INSPIRATION AND Useful resources

Her book "The Heart of Tantric Sex" is a great starting point and my personal favourite is "Tantric Orgasm for Women" (which I recommend to women and their male partners alike).

She shares a way of love-making that is all about slowing down, forgetting any goals, prioritising presence over performance. She also focuses on the importance of breasts for women's arousal.

The Wheel of Consent and Dr Betty Martin's book, 'The Art of Giving and Receiving', are wonderful resources for exploring the dynamics of, particularly, receiving. This is an important aspect of Tantric massage and of intimate relationships.

This is Sarah Rose Bright's online breast massage course  - "To begin – or deepen – a relationship with your breasts as sources of healing, sensuality, wisdom, and self-love. To devote five weeks to exploring the heart opening and sensual practice of breast massage."

Through the title "The Way of the Superior Man" can be triggering the book itself is full of reverence for the feminine and, to me at least, a wonderful guide in how to inhabit my masculinity in a way that honours the feminine in my life. 

Another book of his, "Dear Lover" is like an epic poem to women and may resonate as a 'how I want to be loved' reflection.

A spiritual teacher who had a gift for speaking about human relationships in very simple terms, and with great clarity.

His books "Making Love" and "Living Love"  haver been inspirations for us.

Created by Diana and Michael Richardson, this amazing couple's retreat its now being hosted in the UK by two wonderful teachers, Sarah Rose Bright and Graeme Waterfield. The next retreat is in October 2026, more details here.